No Resolutions for Me, Thank You

I don’t remember exactly when I decided that I would not force myself to hammer out a list of things I wanted to change on the eve of each New Year. What I do know is that year after year, I would faithfully make my list and promise myself I’d do better this time. And once again promptly proceed to fail in carrying them out. I know that I’m not alone.

Statistically speaking…

In 2007, Richard Wiseman and his team conducted a Quirkology experiment and discovered that while 52% of participants were confident they would achieve their goals, only 12% actually did! Moreover, the study found that men achieved their goal 22% more often when they engaged in setting specific, measurable goals (lose a pound a week, instead of saying “lose weight”), while women were 10% more likely to succeed when they voiced their goals publicly and were supported by their circle of friends.

3 Words

Last year I decided that I really liked Chris Brogan’s approach, which I have now adopted. Chris suggests you choose 3 words to aid you in your goal setting process. He says, “Over the last few years, I’ve practiced something I call “my 3 words,” where I come up with three words that I use as guidance for how I should conduct my efforts in the year to come.” I like that. It seems more real and certainly easier to keep 3 words top of mind each day. I haven’t quite landed on my final word, but I’ll be back in a day or so to report in. In the meantime…how about you? Game to try Chris’ approach? If so, what are the 3 words you will use as your compass throughout 2010?

OUTSHINE in ’09

sunflowers1I LOVE sunflowers!

Seriously. Probably the coolest flower ever. Tall, majestic, tough. Really strong! Inspiring.

This picture is of an amazing piece of art hanging on the wall of my office. Right next to my desk actually. The quick, last minute photo I snapped on my I-phone (thanks Mark!) – can never match the depth and power of this work.

I took a minute to dig out the contact info of the artist. I had forgotten her name, which completely mortifies me. Now I repay my Karmic debt:)

Deanna is my personal sunflower!

A few email newsletters that I’ve received today talk about Shine in 2009. I get it. It rhymes.

I say…OUTSHINE in 09!  Be bolder, do it better, do it bigger! Rock On Baby!!!

OUTSHINE in '09

sunflowers1I LOVE sunflowers!

Seriously. Probably the coolest flower ever. Tall, majestic, tough. Really strong! Inspiring.

This picture is of an amazing piece of art hanging on the wall of my office. Right next to my desk actually. The quick, last minute photo I snapped on my I-phone (thanks Mark!) – can never match the depth and power of this work.

I took a minute to dig out the contact info of the artist. I had forgotten her name, which completely mortifies me. Now I repay my Karmic debt:)

Deanna is my personal sunflower!

A few email newsletters that I’ve received today talk about Shine in 2009. I get it. It rhymes.

I say…OUTSHINE in 09!  Be bolder, do it better, do it bigger! Rock On Baby!!!